reconnect_attempted_this_cycle is computed once before the maintenance loop and
only maintainSlotConnection() was setting it. The deferred-setup retry armed the
15 s cross-slot guard via _last_slot_reconnect_ms but left the local flag false,
so a disconnected slot later in the same pass still saw "no reconnect yet" and
started a second TLS handshake. Two concurrent ~40 KB sessions is exactly the
contention the guard prevents, and it landed in the one situation where internal
heap is already known to be short -- a failed allocation is why the retry runs.
Set on success only: setupSlot() returns true only after client->connect(), so
success means a handshake was launched. A failed retry launches nothing and
continues to spend only setup_retry_this_cycle, which rate-limits the allocation
attempts without consuming the handshake allowance.